“Absorb what is useful, Discard what is not, Add what is uniquely your own.”  Bruce Lee. . . >>> READ MORE

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Are you the person everyone knows who never lets go of anything?  You find it really hard to let someone do something for you.  It's much easier just to do it yourself, right?  You may have a control issue.  This could get serious.  Eventually, overload will happen and it will all come flying apart right in front of you.  So, how about we explore some things you can do to help you in relinquishing that control you really don't have?  . . . >>> READ MORE

Do you realize that lack of confidence in yourself limits every aspect of your life?  You have held yourself back in your job, in your relationships and even kept your inner power stamped down.  Sometimes it really is a simple matter of changing how you see yourself.  Negative thoughts about yourself come from a lifetime of practice in some cases.  Everyone has painful experiences that come along with negative reinforcement.  It is possible to create a more positive image of yourself and be more confident in every part of your life. . . . >>> READ MORE

Are you the person who is so friendly that everyone who meets you likes you instantly?  When you go to a party, are you friends with the entire room within a short time?  You are a people person.  You are someone who is nice and has so much charm that others will do anything for you.  . . . >>> READ MORE

It seems to be a lot easier to absolve other people for their mistakes than to forgive your own.  Why do you believe it is so hard to forgive yourself for being human?  Is personal absolution out of the question?  Do you think it is because of a feeling of unworthiness?  Perhaps there is a deep-seated reason for this inability in most of us.  There is never going to be a time when mistakes are not made.  Nothing you have done is so terrible that it deserves a life sentence.  If you can just start with a few little things, you could be on the road to your own personal absolution.

First, there has to be acceptance.  You did make a mistake.  Stop the self-talk about how stupid you were to have made such a bad error in judgment.  Believe me, you are not the first person to ever feel this way.  Accept what was and acknowledge that you did make a mistake and you screwed up.  The object here is to learn from the mistake.  You have probably heard that your entire life.  Things that have truth tend to get repeated often, so you should listen.  . . . >>> READ MORE

Personal growth seems to be the buzzword of the moment.  Whether you like it or not, there is always going to be growth.  To stop growing is to cease to be.  That would be a bad thing.  Personal growth is a way of life.  It is not about goals or where you are going, but the journey itself.  It is a process of being more self-aware and ditching the limiting attitudes that keep you from success.  Basically, you get older and wiser.  Becoming aware of your beliefs can reduce stress and bring you much needed peace of mind.  Modify your life through emotional and mental adjustments.  Step out of your comfort zone and be accountable for who you are. 

Develop a passion for growth in all its forms.  Encourage the growth of your special talents and abilities.  Doing this will allow you to find your place in life.  It is a process to improve your self worth and how you think.  Finding your authentic self, the real spiritual you, will be very fulfilling.  It will affect how you do business, how you conduct yourself and maybe even how much money you make.  Even finding out what you do NOT want is a step in the right direction.  . . . >>> READ MORE

There have been times when you take on extra responsibilities and try to be everything to everyone.  How much stress do you suppose you are putting on your body?  It will affect your thoughts to the point where you can't hear yourself think because of the all the noise of others always needing something.  When your mind and body are stress, your spirit cannot abide in peace and joy.  It's time to find a balance so your physical health will improve, your emotional strain will ease and your spirit will be nurtured.  Without this balance, you get moody, impatient, tired, and just plain cranky.  How much fun do you suppose you are to be around in that case?  You simply cannot do it all.    . . . >>> READ MORE

It might be hard to see something that is right in front of your face.  A simple analogy would be putting your nose to the television screen.  Things are pretty blurry.  The further you pull back from the screen, the better able you are to see the entire picture.  Your vision will get clearer.  Are you ready to grow, to see a change in your life?  There is power in the road to self-improvement.  Until you are really ready for this change to happen, you could be tripping over clues and not notice.  It seems to only be when things are their worst that you get motivated to change and grow.  . . . >>> READ MORE